Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Still fumbling

You’d think that I’d have found a rhythm with work and home life to be able to post more often, but apparently not yet. One thing that I’ve been trying to do is figure out how to post more often. I have also registered for the 2010 Walt Disney World Marathon, which will be my 4th consecutive race there. I posted on my training for this year’s race over at The Mouse and More, but I don’t know if I will do that this year. I may do it here or not at all. Since it’s just the marathon next year (I’m doing the Goofy again in 2011), the training will not be as rigorous. At least I hope so. My wife is running the half marathon, her first, and we’ll have to figure out the training schedule for the long runs on the weekend. Additionally, the training takes place during the holidays, which is always fun, and the weather here in Minnesota is always a factor come wintertime. We’ll see how it goes.

I had a birthday a few weeks ago (the blog’s title is still accurate), but this time it was different because my wife, son and I are happy and in a good place, unlike last year. I should point out that my wife and I have the same birthday one year apart (can’t forget it that way!). Unlike Christmas, when I couldn’t really afford to get much for my wife, I was able to get nice gifts for her birthday. She has always said that I get more gifts for her or spend more money. This year, she outspent me, but only because she got me a GPS training watch
(Garmin Forerunner 405). It’s very cool and I was really surprised when I found out. Read that sentence again. Found out, not opened. I saw the receipt a week or so before my birthday and I fessed up the day before. I always do that – although not always accidentally! Anyway, it was a great present and, although I don’t like thinking about being a year older, getting it made me really appreciate where I was a year ago and where I am now – emotionally, physically, heck, even financially. Things are great and I plan on making them even better this next year!

Monday, March 2, 2009

Have not disappeared…

…just been busy at work. I still enjoy saying that. It’s been a month in the new job, I still love it, and I think I’m doing a good job. My wife’s company went through a round of layoffs and she survived, so we’re very happy about both of us working again. We plan on focusing on getting bills paid down, but we do want to start planning so work on the house, too. Can’t want for spring so I can get outside to run, too!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Back to work!

I’m closing in on the end of my second week at my new job and I am thrilled! I really enjoy the work and the people. The company is great. I’m getting used to getting going early in the morning again and my wife and son have adapted pretty well to Daddy having to leaving earlier than they do. I have even gotten used to commuting again. So far, it’s been good and I know, believe me, that in the state the economy is in right now, I am very fortunate to have been given this opportunity. I intend to take full advantage of it.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Starting new job on Monday

Last Thursday, I was offered a new job, which I accepted enthusiastically. I start on Monday and I am very excited, not only to be working, but in this particular position. I will be doing some things that I believe really play to my strengths and interests. I am being circumspect right now about the position and the company only because I’d like to get a few weeks of work under my belt before saying more.

I will say, though, that the last 8 months have been very challenging and yet also fulfilling. When this whole journey started, I was very concerned about not only finding a new job, but not getting disappointed or depressed. For the most part, I did not succumb to feeling down, although it would happen every once in a while. I guess I just knew that I would get a job, that it might take some time, and that eventually everything would work out. It did, in a wonderful way. The timing for the interviews, the timing for hearing about getting the job allowed me to be able to keep working on my project, train for the Goofy Challenge and have a vacation at Disney World, and also enjoy the holidays.

This blog was started to note the process of getting through a difficult time, finding a job, raising a son, and generally continuing to grow personally. Since at least two of those objectives are on-going, so will the blog. I’m going to continue to fumble through my forties. You’re welcome to join me!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Offered and accepted a job!

I was offered a position this afternoon, which I accepted. I am very excited and will post more later. I am incredibly happy and relieved!

Goofy Challenge completed!

Longer report coming very soon, but wanted to let everyone know I completed the Goofy Challenge and much quicker than I thought I would do it. I was sore Sunday and Monday, but felt pretty good Tuesday and yesterday (which is when we came home to below zero weather!).

Monday, January 5, 2009

Excitement tempered with anxiety, what a combo!

I could hear about the job I interviewed for any day now. While I hope to hear good news before leaving for Walt Disney World, I don’t really want to hear bad news before I go. If I don’t get the job, I’d rather find out after I’m back. The anticipation in waiting to hear is bearable, because potentially, I could always hear good news. Getting the bad news before the trip would be a bummer, but I’d be okay.

Trying to recover from the holiday season, my wife and son were home a lot and I think everyone was going a little stir crazy by yesterday (Sunday). I’ve got to get some work done on the project and I have kept up the job search, but I still would rather just hear good news and go on the trip.